It's easy to see how sending racy text messages can heat up a sex life, but not everyone takes advantage of the turn-on: Married couples do sext, but not nearly as much as younger lovebirds, according to a new study in Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking. The issue: Marrieds may view sexting as something people do when they're insecure in their relationships, the researchers venture. And this couldn't be further from the truth, says clinical sexologist Gloria Brame, Ph. Engaging in the exhilaration can do wonders for your post-nuptial nookie.
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A few years ago, an ex-boyfriend of mine wanted to try it, and as the open-minded woman that I am, I decided to give it a go. Oddly, we also seem to prefer an early morning facial, with high search spikes for the phrase between 4am and 5am on Google this past week. There are plenty of men and women — straight, gay, bi, trans and more — who love sperm facials and my curious mind wanted to find out the reasons why. Sometimes, I worry that my liking it when a guy comes on my face makes me a bad feminist, but after the act is done, my partner gently wipes my face and thanks me.
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But if Miranda in Sex and the City taught us anything, it's that phone sex can be seriously hot—if, that is, you know how to have it. Phone sex—talking through sexual acts or fantasies over the phone while you and your partner masturbate—isn't just an intimacy must-do for long-distance couples who can't have regular P-in-the-V or V-on-the-V action. Phone sex is a great way for any and all couples to spice things up, says Janet Brito , PhD, a clinical psychologist and sexologist in Honolulu. After all, research shows that novelty is like an aphrodisiac for your brain. But exactly how to have phone sex can feel daunting, since it combines two uncomfortable acts for many women, at least : narrating sexy deeds AND vocalizing personal fantasies.
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